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    30 Ways To Increase Your Happiness In The New Year

    January 2, 2019

    Whether or not you set resolutions for the New Year, you probably would like to maintain or increase your happiness quotient. If so, the following tips may prove to be helpful: Write down three positive things that happened to you each day and think about how and why they occurred. Maybe they seemed to happen […]

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    30 Ways To Increase Your Happiness In The New Year

    January 2, 2019

    Whether or not you set resolutions for the New Year, you probably would like to maintain or increase your happiness quotient. If so, the following tips may prove to be helpful: Write down three positive things that happened to you each day and think about how and why they occurred. Maybe they seemed to happen […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Goal Setting, Happiness, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: exercise, forgive, gratitude, happiness, mindfulness

    How To Break Free From Perfectionism

    September 25, 2018

    Do you find it hard to take a compliment, believing that you don’t deserve praise? Do you focus on minor mistakes you’ve made, rather than acknowledging all of the things you do well? If a friend compliments your smile, do you brush off the remark with a derogatory comment about yourself? If so, you may […]

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    How To Break Free From Perfectionism

    September 25, 2018

    Do you find it hard to take a compliment, believing that you don’t deserve praise? Do you focus on minor mistakes you’ve made, rather than acknowledging all of the things you do well? If a friend compliments your smile, do you brush off the remark with a derogatory comment about yourself? If so, you may […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: coping, overthink, perfectionism, self-esteem

    The Transformative Power of Gratitude

    December 1, 2017

    Although the Thanksgiving holiday serves as a good reminder for us to pause and count our blessings, the truth is that gratitude represents an attitude and actions that we can seek to cultivate every day of the year. In addition to improving our relationships with others, expressing our thanks offers many other benefits. Some quotes […]

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    The Transformative Power of Gratitude

    December 1, 2017

    Although the Thanksgiving holiday serves as a good reminder for us to pause and count our blessings, the truth is that gratitude represents an attitude and actions that we can seek to cultivate every day of the year. In addition to improving our relationships with others, expressing our thanks offers many other benefits. Some quotes […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, Depression, Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Holidays, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Words of Wisdom Tagged With: gratitude

    15 Steps to Develop Resilience

    September 25, 2017

    Why is it that some people bounce back from tragedy or even seem to thrive in the face of persistent hardship, while others collapse and stay down for the count? Are some people just born with this resilience, defined as “an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change” (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)? Are […]

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    15 Steps to Develop Resilience

    September 25, 2017

    Why is it that some people bounce back from tragedy or even seem to thrive in the face of persistent hardship, while others collapse and stay down for the count? Are some people just born with this resilience, defined as “an ability to recover from or adjust easily to misfortune or change” (Merriam-Webster Dictionary)? Are […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, Courage, Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: relationships, resilience

    Seven Truths About Happiness

    September 6, 2017

    When asked to name their number one priority, people tend to list personal relationships, good physical health, meaningful employment, wealth, a comfortable home, sufficient leisure time… the list goes on and on. However, just about everyone would agree that they want to be happy. At the same time, many of us are concerned that we […]

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    Seven Truths About Happiness

    September 6, 2017

    When asked to name their number one priority, people tend to list personal relationships, good physical health, meaningful employment, wealth, a comfortable home, sufficient leisure time… the list goes on and on. However, just about everyone would agree that they want to be happy. At the same time, many of us are concerned that we […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mindfulness, Relationships Tagged With: happiness

    What You May Be Getting Wrong About Happiness

    August 10, 2017

    So many definitions and opinions exist about what constitutes happiness. Is it a feeling? A mood? An attitude? A way of life? Let’s turn to the definition of happiness from Sonia Lyubomirsky, researcher and author of The How of Happiness and The Myths of Happiness. Lyubomirsky states that happiness is “the experience of joy, contentment, […]

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    What You May Be Getting Wrong About Happiness

    August 10, 2017

    So many definitions and opinions exist about what constitutes happiness. Is it a feeling? A mood? An attitude? A way of life? Let’s turn to the definition of happiness from Sonia Lyubomirsky, researcher and author of The How of Happiness and The Myths of Happiness. Lyubomirsky states that happiness is “the experience of joy, contentment, […]

    Filed Under: General, Happiness Tagged With: happiness

    How To Overcome Your Inner Cynic

    August 1, 2017

    Wanting to protect ourselves from harm is only natural. It would be naïve to trust everyone all the time or simply assume that the world is always a safe place. The hard truth is that people sometimes have devious motives and that life can contain danger and tragedy. However, there may come a time when […]

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    How To Overcome Your Inner Cynic

    August 1, 2017

    Wanting to protect ourselves from harm is only natural. It would be naïve to trust everyone all the time or simply assume that the world is always a safe place. The hard truth is that people sometimes have devious motives and that life can contain danger and tragedy. However, there may come a time when […]

    Filed Under: General, Happiness, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: cynic, cynicism, gratitude, mindful

    How Our Relationships Affect Our Health and Happiness

    June 14, 2017

    Whether you consider yourself a social butterfly, more inclined to one-on-one interactions, or prefer solitude, there’s no denying that the quality of your personal relationships affect your levels of happiness, well-being, and physical health. We are wired for connection. As the saying goes, “No man is an island”. Consider research done on over 200 undergraduate […]

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    How Our Relationships Affect Our Health and Happiness

    June 14, 2017

    Whether you consider yourself a social butterfly, more inclined to one-on-one interactions, or prefer solitude, there’s no denying that the quality of your personal relationships affect your levels of happiness, well-being, and physical health. We are wired for connection. As the saying goes, “No man is an island”. Consider research done on over 200 undergraduate […]

    Filed Under: General, Happiness, Relationships Tagged With: communication, happiness, health, relationships

    Where We’ve Gone Wrong With Mindfulness

    June 1, 2017

    Mindfulness is all the rage – and with good reason. We are faced with an overwhelming, constant input of media, be it from our phones, iPads, laptop, or desktop computers – not to mention the burgeoning possibilities presented to us by cable and network TV, and movie theaters. Our bosses, colleagues, clients, family, and friends […]

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    Where We’ve Gone Wrong With Mindfulness

    June 1, 2017

    Mindfulness is all the rage – and with good reason. We are faced with an overwhelming, constant input of media, be it from our phones, iPads, laptop, or desktop computers – not to mention the burgeoning possibilities presented to us by cable and network TV, and movie theaters. Our bosses, colleagues, clients, family, and friends […]

    Filed Under: General, Happiness, Mind/Body Connection, Mindfulness, Personal Growth Tagged With: awareness, emotional maturity, mindfulness, multi-tasking, personal growth, psychotherapy

    Defeating Fear and Embracing Your Destiny

    May 3, 2017

    “Never forget: This very moment, we can change our lives. There never was a moment, and never will be, when we are without the power to alter our destiny. This second we can turn the tables on Resistance. This second we can sit down and do our work.” (Steven Pressfield) Whether or not we recognize […]

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    Defeating Fear and Embracing Your Destiny

    May 3, 2017

    “Never forget: This very moment, we can change our lives. There never was a moment, and never will be, when we are without the power to alter our destiny. This second we can turn the tables on Resistance. This second we can sit down and do our work.” (Steven Pressfield) Whether or not we recognize […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, Courage, General, Goal Setting, Happiness, Personal Growth Tagged With: creative, fear, resistance, war of art

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