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    Tips To Calm Yourself When You Feel Overwhelmed

    December 12, 2023

    In addition to containing many moments of joy, life clearly also involves hassles. Sometimes, in addition to everyday challenges, we find (or put) ourselves in situations which seem absolutely unbearable, and we’re overwhelmed by powerful feelings that if unchecked might cause us to act in destructive ways. It can be extremely difficult to think clearly […]

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    Tips To Calm Yourself When You Feel Overwhelmed

    December 12, 2023

    In addition to containing many moments of joy, life clearly also involves hassles. Sometimes, in addition to everyday challenges, we find (or put) ourselves in situations which seem absolutely unbearable, and we’re overwhelmed by powerful feelings that if unchecked might cause us to act in destructive ways. It can be extremely difficult to think clearly […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Mind/Body Connection, Peace Tagged With: breathing, calm, emotions, exercise, muscle relaxation, overwhelmed

    9 Principles of Stoicism Which Promote Happiness

    October 13, 2023

    For many of us, there comes a time when it becomes clear to us that our pursuit of happiness through amassing material wealth and power does not do the trick. Whether or not we’ve attained some level of external security, that inner peace and contentment we’ve sought feels tenuous and overly reliance on situations that […]

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    9 Principles of Stoicism Which Promote Happiness

    October 13, 2023

    For many of us, there comes a time when it becomes clear to us that our pursuit of happiness through amassing material wealth and power does not do the trick. Whether or not we’ve attained some level of external security, that inner peace and contentment we’ve sought feels tenuous and overly reliance on situations that […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Peace, Personal Growth, Words of Wisdom Tagged With: attitude, Epictetus, focus, happiness, Marcus Aurelius, right actions, Seneca, Stoic, stoicism, values, viktor frankl

    10 Ways To Cope When Your Life Feels Out of Control

    July 18, 2023

    Wouldn’t it be a relief if you could finally get – and keep – your life in order? If you were always in tip-top condition physically, without any medical concerns? If you could hit your “ideal” weight and maintain this with an unbroken string of healthy yet delicious meals? If you never fought with your […]

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    10 Ways To Cope When Your Life Feels Out of Control

    July 18, 2023

    Wouldn’t it be a relief if you could finally get – and keep – your life in order? If you were always in tip-top condition physically, without any medical concerns? If you could hit your “ideal” weight and maintain this with an unbroken string of healthy yet delicious meals? If you never fought with your […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, General, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Peace, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: control, cope, self-compassion, uncertainty

    4 Essential Components Of A Balanced Life

    March 28, 2023

    It’s been said that we are human beings, not human doings. Reminding ourselves of this concept can help us to keep things in perspective. Busyness can masquerade as “getting things done”, which may temporarily bolster our self-esteem, at least on the surface. However, putting excessive focus on staying occupied can alienate us from ourselves as […]

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    4 Essential Components Of A Balanced Life

    March 28, 2023

    It’s been said that we are human beings, not human doings. Reminding ourselves of this concept can help us to keep things in perspective. Busyness can masquerade as “getting things done”, which may temporarily bolster our self-esteem, at least on the surface. However, putting excessive focus on staying occupied can alienate us from ourselves as […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Peace, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: balance, fun, growth, meditation, social

    Differences Between Worry and Concern

    April 15, 2022

    “Worry” is such a common term that we may believe it to be part of our natural state and possibly helpful. The truth is that worry runs us down, keeps us in the problem, and can eventually lead to such a frazzled mental state that we sabotage our ability to think clearly and effectively. However, it’s […]

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    Differences Between Worry and Concern

    April 15, 2022

    “Worry” is such a common term that we may believe it to be part of our natural state and possibly helpful. The truth is that worry runs us down, keeps us in the problem, and can eventually lead to such a frazzled mental state that we sabotage our ability to think clearly and effectively. However, it’s […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Peace Tagged With: concern, worry

    15 Facts About Forgiveness

    October 10, 2019

    “How dare she do such a thing?” “I’ll never get over this!”  “I want him to pay for his actions!” “I’ll never be able to trust him/her/anyone again.” When we’ve been hurt by someone, any or all of these thoughts can plague us. We’re filled with (and tormented by) anger, resentment, tension, anguish, anxiety, and […]

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    15 Facts About Forgiveness

    October 10, 2019

    “How dare she do such a thing?” “I’ll never get over this!”  “I want him to pay for his actions!” “I’ll never be able to trust him/her/anyone again.” When we’ve been hurt by someone, any or all of these thoughts can plague us. We’re filled with (and tormented by) anger, resentment, tension, anguish, anxiety, and […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Peace, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: accept, forgive, forgiveness

    Facts About Inner Peace

    April 14, 2016

    “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart. “  Unknown We all want peace in our lives, right? This sounds like a no-brainer, but the truth is […]

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    Facts About Inner Peace

    April 14, 2016

    “Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart. “  Unknown We all want peace in our lives, right? This sounds like a no-brainer, but the truth is […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, General, Happiness, Peace Tagged With: peace

    Hints for Effective Stress Management

    April 2, 2014

    Generally when we talk about being “stressed”, we mean that we’re feeling overwhelmed and anxious. However, we all need a certain level of stimulation and challenge in order to feel fulfilled, and this crucial amount of stress is termed eustress. Defined by the endocrinologist Hals Selye, eustress refers to “good stress”, or responding to a […]

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    Hints for Effective Stress Management

    April 2, 2014

    Generally when we talk about being “stressed”, we mean that we’re feeling overwhelmed and anxious. However, we all need a certain level of stimulation and challenge in order to feel fulfilled, and this crucial amount of stress is termed eustress. Defined by the endocrinologist Hals Selye, eustress refers to “good stress”, or responding to a […]

    Filed Under: Anxiety, General, Peace Tagged With: anxiety, Stress, stress management

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