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    What Uncomfortable Feelings Can Teach Us

    September 12, 2023

    Do you sometimes recoil from uncomfortable emotions, thinking that you either shouldn’t be feeling them or that you cannot handle them? The truth is that we’re meant to have a broad range of emotions. We actually need to, since they provide us with valuable information. The key lies in not judging our feelings but becoming […]

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    What Uncomfortable Feelings Can Teach Us

    September 12, 2023

    Do you sometimes recoil from uncomfortable emotions, thinking that you either shouldn’t be feeling them or that you cannot handle them? The truth is that we’re meant to have a broad range of emotions. We actually need to, since they provide us with valuable information. The key lies in not judging our feelings but becoming […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: emotions, feelings, uncomfortable

    17 Tips To Stay Motivated Over The Long Haul

    August 2, 2023

    There is something treacherous and insidious about procrastination. While it feels good in the short run, in that we are spared (for the present) the possible discomfort involved in pushing ourselves a bit, in the long run procrastination can lead to a type of soul sickness. We begin to doubt (and then more so as […]

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    17 Tips To Stay Motivated Over The Long Haul

    August 2, 2023

    There is something treacherous and insidious about procrastination. While it feels good in the short run, in that we are spared (for the present) the possible discomfort involved in pushing ourselves a bit, in the long run procrastination can lead to a type of soul sickness. We begin to doubt (and then more so as […]

    Filed Under: General, Goal Setting, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: compassion, motivated, values, worrying

    10 Ways To Cope When Your Life Feels Out of Control

    July 18, 2023

    Wouldn’t it be a relief if you could finally get – and keep – your life in order? If you were always in tip-top condition physically, without any medical concerns? If you could hit your “ideal” weight and maintain this with an unbroken string of healthy yet delicious meals? If you never fought with your […]

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    10 Ways To Cope When Your Life Feels Out of Control

    July 18, 2023

    Wouldn’t it be a relief if you could finally get – and keep – your life in order? If you were always in tip-top condition physically, without any medical concerns? If you could hit your “ideal” weight and maintain this with an unbroken string of healthy yet delicious meals? If you never fought with your […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, General, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Peace, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: control, cope, self-compassion, uncertainty

    Coping Effectively With Fear

    June 19, 2023

    “Always move toward your demons. They take their power from your retreat.” (Thom Rutledge) How does fear show up in your life? Is it that dread of facing the day that causes you to hit the snooze button when your alarm goes off in the morning? Does fear lead you to doubt your abilities and […]

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    Coping Effectively With Fear

    June 19, 2023

    “Always move toward your demons. They take their power from your retreat.” (Thom Rutledge) How does fear show up in your life? Is it that dread of facing the day that causes you to hit the snooze button when your alarm goes off in the morning? Does fear lead you to doubt your abilities and […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Personal Growth Tagged With: ACT, fear, values

    How To Stop Being A Control Freak

    May 10, 2023

    Most of us feel better when we have some degree of control over our lives. After all, feeling on top of things gives us a sense of security and competence. Learning a new skill can increase our self-confidence. Acing an interview and getting the job for which we were vying boosts our morale. Figuring out […]

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    How To Stop Being A Control Freak

    May 10, 2023

    Most of us feel better when we have some degree of control over our lives. After all, feeling on top of things gives us a sense of security and competence. Learning a new skill can increase our self-confidence. Acing an interview and getting the job for which we were vying boosts our morale. Figuring out […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, General, Mental Health, Personal Growth Tagged With: control

    Post-Traumatic Growth During COVID-19 and Beyond

    April 12, 2023

    What constitutes trauma or adversity? Essentially anything that causes physical or psychological pain or injury. This includes personal illness or injury, witnessing the same in someone else, natural disasters, enduring abuse, the death of someone close to us, job loss, addiction, financial problems, relationship difficulties, and incarceration. The range and magnitude of trauma is vast. […]

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    Post-Traumatic Growth During COVID-19 and Beyond

    April 12, 2023

    What constitutes trauma or adversity? Essentially anything that causes physical or psychological pain or injury. This includes personal illness or injury, witnessing the same in someone else, natural disasters, enduring abuse, the death of someone close to us, job loss, addiction, financial problems, relationship difficulties, and incarceration. The range and magnitude of trauma is vast. […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Addiction, Anxiety, Depression, Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: acceptance, COVID, growth, openness, post-traumatic growth, relationships, spiritual, strength, trauma

    4 Essential Components Of A Balanced Life

    March 28, 2023

    It’s been said that we are human beings, not human doings. Reminding ourselves of this concept can help us to keep things in perspective. Busyness can masquerade as “getting things done”, which may temporarily bolster our self-esteem, at least on the surface. However, putting excessive focus on staying occupied can alienate us from ourselves as […]

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    4 Essential Components Of A Balanced Life

    March 28, 2023

    It’s been said that we are human beings, not human doings. Reminding ourselves of this concept can help us to keep things in perspective. Busyness can masquerade as “getting things done”, which may temporarily bolster our self-esteem, at least on the surface. However, putting excessive focus on staying occupied can alienate us from ourselves as […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Happiness, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Peace, Personal Growth, Relationships Tagged With: balance, fun, growth, meditation, social

    The Importance of “Negative” Emotions

    March 20, 2023

    Anger, sadness, fear, and other “negative” emotions have often been given a bad rap. Given that such feelings are generally unpleasant to experience, our aversion to them is understandable. Also, our society encourages us to be positive and optimistic, which is helpful – to a point. The truth is that nobody is happy all of […]

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    The Importance of “Negative” Emotions

    March 20, 2023

    Anger, sadness, fear, and other “negative” emotions have often been given a bad rap. Given that such feelings are generally unpleasant to experience, our aversion to them is understandable. Also, our society encourages us to be positive and optimistic, which is helpful – to a point. The truth is that nobody is happy all of […]

    Filed Under: Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Personal Growth, Self-Compassion Tagged With: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, emotions, feelings, negative emotions, self-compassion

    The Committee In Your Head

    March 7, 2023

    Does it ever seem as if there’s an internal debate going on in your mind? One voice says, “This report which I’ve prepared for my boss sucks”, while another voice tells you that “It’s fine – never mind the typos and grammatical errors”, and a third voice chimes in, saying “Why don’t I take a short […]

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    The Committee In Your Head

    March 7, 2023

    Does it ever seem as if there’s an internal debate going on in your mind? One voice says, “This report which I’ve prepared for my boss sucks”, while another voice tells you that “It’s fine – never mind the typos and grammatical errors”, and a third voice chimes in, saying “Why don’t I take a short […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Anxiety, Emotional Eating, General, Mental Health, Personal Growth Tagged With: brain, committee, thinking

    How To Achieve Emotional Sobriety

    February 22, 2023

    Many people in recovery from alcohol or drug abuse, compulsive overeating, gambling, or other addictive behaviors eventually realize that while quitting the behavior is crucial, it’s not sufficient to live a happy, serene, healthy, and useful life. The next step in recovery is emotional sobriety, or learning to deal with the uncomfortable feelings, thoughts, and […]

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    How To Achieve Emotional Sobriety

    February 22, 2023

    Many people in recovery from alcohol or drug abuse, compulsive overeating, gambling, or other addictive behaviors eventually realize that while quitting the behavior is crucial, it’s not sufficient to live a happy, serene, healthy, and useful life. The next step in recovery is emotional sobriety, or learning to deal with the uncomfortable feelings, thoughts, and […]

    Filed Under: Acceptance, Addiction, Codependency, Emotion Regulation, General, Mental Health, Mindfulness, Personal Growth Tagged With: addiction, emotional sobriety, mindfulness, recovery, support group

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