Los Angeles Wildfires: Grief, Gratitude, and Hope

Eight days ago, fires began to tear through Los Angeles, driven by powerful winds. Tens of thousands of residents were ordered to evacuate, grabbing whatever few belongings they could with only minutes to spare. Members of my family evacuated one town, only to have to evacuate again from their presumed safe location.

Entire communities were destroyed in a matter of days and, in some cases, hours. Pacific Palisades and Altadena are now unrecognizable, with thousands of homes as well as businesses, places of worship, grocery stores, schools, theaters, and libraries burned to the ground.

Collectively Los Angeles has suffered a loss, not only of home, property, and precious memorabilia, but, tragically, in some cases, life. The magnitude of the tragedy continues to unfold – and it is not over yet. Parts of Los Angeles and Ventura counties are currently under a “particularly dangerous situation warning”, the most extreme level of a red flag fire warning, with winds are expected to pick up today and possibly again next week, which could fan existing fires and possibly ignite new blazes.

How do we cope with a tragedy of such magnitude? How do we find solace? How do we deal with feelings of sorrow, loss, anger, grief, fear, and uncertainty?

The path will vary from person to person, but so far it seems clear that the outpouring of compassion, offers to temporarily house evacuees, including pets, and donations of clothing, food, and other supplies are demonstrating Los Angeles’ level of care and sense of common humanity in ways that transcend political and other ideological differences. At a time in our country when disagreements threaten to drive us all apart, the wildfires and their aftermath are demonstrating that we really are all connected, and that many, many people recognize this and are acting accordingly. This is heartening.

When we show vulnerability, we show courage.

When we reach out to help someone, we ourselves are helped.

When our world is shattered, we can eventually see a new path forward.

When our hearts break, we can open to more love within us and around us.

When we grieve, we can simultaneously see much to be grateful for.

May all who are affected by the wildfires find strength, support, comfort, and hope.

A new life will emerge. It will be different, and it will take time. But it will come. Hang in there.