Inside each of us lives a younger self. Not just a memory or snapshot of who we were, but an active, feeling part of our internal world. This is often called the inner child—the part of us shaped by early experiences, longings, and emotional impressions...
You eat less than your body needs. You think about food all the time — planning meals, avoiding meals, regretting meals. You feel the grip of control, perfectionism, anxiety, and guilt after eating even a bite more than you “should.” And yet… you’re not “underweight.”...
Let’s say you’ve struggled with food—eating too much, eating too little, worrying constantly about what and when and how. Or maybe you feel like your body is your enemy, or your emotions are all over the place (or just plain… gone). Now imagine someone tells...
Anxiety isn’t just a feeling—it’s more like a full cast of characters taking up residence inside your chest. There’s the rapid-fire narrator, the worst-case-scenario screenwriter, the doom-prepping squirrel who’s been storing acorns of worry since 1997. If you’ve lived with anxiety for a while, you...
When I visited my mother several weeks ago, I never imagined that her home and thousands of others would be reduced to ash within the next few days. It seems unfathomable that entire communities could be decimated so quickly. The horrific wildfires in Los Angeles...
Eight days ago, fires began to tear through Los Angeles, driven by powerful winds. Tens of thousands of residents were ordered to evacuate, grabbing whatever few belongings they could with only minutes to spare. Members of my family evacuated one town, only to have to...
Having some knowledge about healthy eating habits is generally helpful. Implementing such knowledge is even more helpful – to a point. When a person spends an excessive amount of time thinking about the quality of one’s diet and taking great measures to eat in a...
Family Systems (IFS) therapy is based on the idea that we all have various parts or sub-personalities. This is perfectly normal and to be expected. Have you ever thought “part of me wants to stay at home, but another part of me wants to go...
You may spend a lot of time thinking about what foods to eat to nourish your body and mind – and with good reason, as there is definitely a connection between inflammation and depression, which can be either exacerbated or alleviated in part by your...
Do you find yourself trying to figure out why experiences have happened to you, why certain situations frighten you, or why certain inevitables (death and taxes, as they say) exist? If so, welcome to the human race. Our minds are meaning-making machines. In addition, gaining...